I agree that he should get a restraining order, but for very good, private reasons that he won't even discuss with me, he decided against it. As for any, meaning all, cops saying that it would be better to kill another human being rather than crack a rib, puncture a lung, and possibly more leaving them in the ICU, if I ever met that cop, there would be a heated debate. I know that you guys might know a little more about "Appendix A, Section 7" type stuff, but surely, I would not have the right to pull the trigger, unless use of a firearm was absolutely neccesary. You are trying to say that if I shot and killed her, for certain in self defense, all that would happen is tax payers would have to pay for the clean-up. Yet, if in the same situation, at the same moment in time, I pulled that same trigger and disabled her with a bean bag, or rubber bullet, I would get sued for everything I have. Two possible trials there, a murder/assault charge by the peoples' prosecutor, and a private trial where I would get sued for damages for either murder or assault. If I killed her and was found innocent on grounds of self defense, the second case wouldn't even get to trial. If I assaulted her with a bean bag round in the same situation, and not charged for it, on grounds of self defense, the second case would not get to trial. Im not positive, but in a situation where the intended victim kills their would be attacker in self defense, actually, I am sure, the would be attacker will be charged for attempting murder, or assault. The intended victim simply got lucky and saved his/her own life.
Also keep in mind the right to trial by jury, where you and I have to sit and deliberate the innocent until proven guilty. Can you honestly tell yourself that there won't be at least one person like me on the jury with you. How can you not see that under the said circumstances, the self defending victim saved the life of the crazy attacker by first shooting a "less-lethal" round, disabling, not killing the person.
Lastly, my TV is really big, so bring alot of guys and a big truck. Sell the TV, then pay someone to pick up the rest of my **** and empty my bank accounts, Im not going to take another human life unless there is no other option, especially just so that I can keep my TV and my Tahoe.