So on April 13, a buddy and I went to Tempe Paintball because I had a free pass. I was able to redeem that pass and my friend bought his "ticket". So we got in and saw not that many people but a good amount, including us. We set up, geared up, and being the person I am, I started to get to know the people that we were to play against. I saw it as an advantage to have a more friendly experience and as a way to have fun games. The first ref was ok, he did his job but at a little-over-the-minimum grade. It was still fun even though he made my buddy and I sit out most of the games. Eventually more players came in and the same strategy I applied earlier about knowing the players was put into effect. The result ended in even more friends and better games. Also a new ref came on and this guy was chill and made fair team and enjoyable decisions. He had us play 1 match to test out who could be on what teams so that the good people could have a fair "challenge". Casually he set my buddy and I on the team that needed the challenge and his strategy worked. We had so much fun with the challenge and games of 4 v 8 and 2 v 4. It was fantastic. I enjoyed my time there even though my hand was crippled after he assigned me to become a terminator(guardian for a president, cannot get out, but I didn't take advantage of that and played fair). The ref was a good man and gave me an ice pack and we joked about how I played one handed. so moral of the story: have fun and pride in airsoft, you never know what good friends you can make.